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The Tech Difference

2012-02-13T17:47:00.000-06:00

There is a difference. We know that. Teen brains don't function the same as adult brains and for good reason. They are still developing and executive functioning is still getting there. This affects judgement, how things are processed, and even how emotions are interpreted and reacted to. There are other differences. Adults bring life experiences that teens do not have which will also influence judgement, processing, and the interpretation of and reaction to emotions. We expect that experience is accompanied by maturity and wisdom.

When we look at the use of technology in this light, therefore, it is not surprising that adults have a more positive Facebook experience, as the post below outlines.

Adults Like Facebook More Than Teens, Pew Says
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Eighty-five percent percent of adults surveyed believe that visiting social networks like Facebook are a pleasant way to spend time; that figure comes close to the proportion of teenagers who've witnessed mean or cruel ...

Because of teens' developmental stage and inexperience, as adults we desire to protect them. We do this by offering practical guidance as well as general principles that they can, and we hope will, use to maneuver the internet safely. We talked some about this here in a previous post. Parents, particularly, seek to be more hands-on and look for ways in which they can block harmful sights from their children's on the internet, etc. Then there is the issue of safe cellphone usage.

Below, an attorney shares apps to help with the dangerous practice of texting while driving. Of course, adults may benefit from these as well since this is one area where at times adults and teens seem to be on the same judgement level.

NY Attorney Offers Advice on Technology that Helps Keep Teens ...
www.zifflaw.com2/13/12

Technology can help to prevent distracted driving and keep your family safe.

So, there are positive ways in which we can apply technology. This applies not only to adults, but also to teens. Zamzee is a fun way for to motivate young gamers to keep moving physically toward a healthier lifestyle.

Zamzee: Using Technology and Gamification to Make Fitness Fun ...
www.digitalqatar.net2/13/12

Well, there is a new gaming technology designed specifically for teens that did just that and actually got teens moving 30% more – the equivalent of one marathon a month! Zamzee is a gaming concept that tracks how much ...

Technology is used differently and makes a difference.

How are you using it differently from the students with whom you work and how is it making a difference in your life?

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The Why of It

2012-02-10T17:02:00.000-06:00

So why do you do it? Why do you spend time with young people, as a youth worker, a volunteer, a mentor, etc? What is it that motivates and drives you, other than you like to hang out with young people?

If you haven't thought about this for a while, take a couple minutes and write down 5 reasons why you are involved in youth ministry. Any surprises?

For many of us, it's a call. We may have other reasons that we give but we really do feel called by God to journey with students and grow in God's grace together, giving guidance and wisdom from our viewpoint of having been traveling a longer time. Of course, we learn from them as well.

There are many ways in which we work out this, "why we do this." God has given us different gifts and abilities and calls. But I pray that at the heart of all that we do, we seek the glory and reign of God and God's best for the precious lives that God has entrusted to us.

So, why do you do it? Tell us.

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Exciting Times at youTheology - Join Us

2012-02-06T16:36:00.003-06:00

By now you’ve probably realized that we are excited at youTheology. Yes. In many ways it's a new day for us with new board members and some new initiatives.

We’re grateful for those who continue to journey with us. We are thankful for the positive feedback on our programs and materials and for how God is changing lives and ministries through what we do.

We welcome the new people with joy. New people bring fresh energy and ides. This in turn fuels our passion. We hope you can share this excitement and join in what God is doing in our midst. Here are some ways in which you can participate:

Youth Workers' Gathering 2012 in Oklahoma City from March 30-31 - a time to be connect, reconnect, renew, learn, and be motivated.
Youth Workers Time for refreshing in Kansas City on April 21 at Saint Paul School of Theology. More to come.
Time for high school students to apply for our one-year journey. Deadline for applications is April 11.
Save the date - One God, One Day, One Love is returning on September 15. Come with your middle and high school students to worship, go out into the community to serve, then return and and talk about it and link service with their faith.
Of course there are our youth ministry resources that you can use with your youth group and our books that we hope you will use as a resource for your ministry.

All these are opportunities to expand your circle as you connect with people outside your regular group. Learn about what God is doing among God's people in different cities and churches. Whether you are a student or someone who is working with and/or interested in students, youTheology has a place for you to grow deeper, be more effective, and be renewed.

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Perspectives from the Field: Civil/Human Rights, Concern for Others and Justice

2012-02-03T11:47:00.002-06:00

A few weeks ago, we honored the memory of the Reverend Dr.Martin Luther King, Jr. and his leadership in civil rights, human rights,concern for the oppressed and justice. Now, we prepare to celebrate Valentine’s Day which is a holiday tocelebrate love.

In between these two holidays, I ask you … What greater loveexists than the love of our God when he gave us His only Son and then died forus on the cross?

The two holidays celebrated most in the church are Christmasand Easter, celebrating the birth of our Lord and his resurrection. However, let’s not forget the sacrifice hemade for us on Good Friday. Yet, it’snot all about birth and death. Look at theway Jesus led his life, the lessons he taught us (and still teaches us today)and how he treated others.

In youTheology, we are reminded of the importance of “LovingGod, Loving Neighbor” and need to remember that this isn’t just a phrase but adirective on how to live life.

How do YOU show God’s love and concern for others? What are do you doing to remind others ofGod’s concern for justice? How can we asGod’s children advocate for Civil Rights and Human Rights?

by Mark Whitaker

Youth & Young Adult Director @ Avondale United Methodist Church in KC North

Chair, youTheology Advisory Board

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2012, A Time of Transition for youTheology

2012-01-31T17:07:00.000-06:00

On Saturday, January 28, 2012, the Advisory Board of youTheology of Saint Paul School of Theology met and I washonored to be elected as the new Chair for 2012. I am joined on the Advisory Board by DeputyChair Charity Goodwin-Rosario, Secretary Gail McClenton, Finance Liaison JoyceHancock and Marketing Coordinator Jason Wimberley.

I admit that I have some big shoes to fill as ArionneWilliams did an outstanding job as the Interim Chair; and we as an Advisory Board are nowapproaching a key moment in the evolution of youTheology as an organization.

A little history … The one-year program (now known as“youTheology: The Journey”) began in 2003; in 2006 youTheology changed into a Pan-Methodistprogram (including not only United Methodist Church but also AME, AMEZion and CME); a year later the Youth Workers’ Gathering wasadded in 2007; and we held thefirst “One God, One Day, One Love” event in 2010. Last year, we saw two books published: Youth Ministry in a Technological Ageand The 411 on Life and Love. We also held our first “Meet and Greet” and,as a result, have a few new board members.

Throughout our history, we have been fortunate to receivemajor financial assistance from Lilly Endowment grants. As we move into the future,youTheology is seeking to become self-sufficient so that we can continue totouch lives without being dependent on outside organizations for funding. It’s also important to make sure we spreadthe word about youTheology so more people have an opportunity to participate inthis life-changing ministry.

If you are reading this blog, that means you are a part ofyouTheology and can help spread the word through your Circles ofInfluence. I’m sharing several linksbelow as ways to help tell others about youTheology:

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by Mark Whitaker, youTheology Advisory Board Chair

Youth & Young Adult Director @ Avondale United Methodist Church in KC North

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There's Got to be More

2012-01-27T20:43:00.001-06:00

There's got to be more: You know it and I know it. Yet, a quick look at some of the main stories suggest that the primary activity of teens involves acts of violence. Here is a sample:

Teen Beating Video Has Teens Concerned About Their Safety At ...
www.huffingtonpost.com1/26/12
About the authors: Julianne is a senior at Elk Grove High School and Erik Martinez and Salomon Navarro are senior and sophomore students, respectively, at Curie High School. All students are reporters for The Mash, a weekly teen publication distributed to ...

Students say teens didn't stand out at high school
www.standard.net1/27/12
ROY -- Joshua Hoggan, 16, one of the two teens arrested on suspicion of plotting to bomb Roy High School, had a Facebook page that opened his life to...

Teens Charged With Stabbing Garland Man & Setting Van On Fire ...
dfw.cbslocal.com1/25/12
Police in Garland say what began as a wild night of partying quickly got out of control and now two teenage girls are being charged with Capital Murder.

Of course, that's after the big buzz about Google+ allowing teens on their social network.

You and I know that many teens are engaged in actions that are helping to improve lives and build a better future for many. They are contributing citizens. We've blogged about them on the blog, for example in this post. I meet and interact with them at churches in youTheology and on the road. I read about them. You do as well. There are more students in our world than violent teens.

And yet violence is a reality. One person involved in violent acts is too many. A group is far too many. How do we expand our reach to provide meaning and alternative ways of dealing with life and anger to the teens who are involved in violence? How do we go beyond our circle to include all and help them to know that there is more?

What are you doing?

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Repetition Has Value

2012-01-23T21:11:00.000-06:00

Life is real! Life is earnest!	5
And the grave is not its goal;
Dust thou art, to dust returnest,
Was not spoken of the soul.

I cannot tell you how many times I heard those lines growing up, as well as some other favorite stanzas from that Longfellow poem. I can say two stanzas from that poem by heart, long before I ever read the whole poem much less knew where they came from. It seemed that the older people around me had to commit this poem to memory at school. The teachers did a good job, and those older folks never failed to use it to remind us that that we should strive for excellence, there is a serious side to life and actions have consequences. Like the constant dripping that wears away the stone, the constant repetition made an indelible impression.

Repetition is important in the growing years. We easily forget. Teenage brain research helps us to understand that among teens, executive function is still developing and often decisions are made from the more emotionally driven part of the brain. The repetition of precepts, ongoing and repeated discussions about life and consequences, the repetition of Scripture verses and Christian principles all help to reinforce positive attitudes and behaviors and to give a larger view of life than the immediate and too easily achieved. They remind us and the teens we serve that God has a purpose for us and that waiting and delaying gratification are an important part of life. This can help to counter some of the risky attitudes and behavior seen below.

New Study Finds Teens Sharing Their Passwords
www.chicalogic.com1/23/12
New Study Finds Teens Sharing Their Passwords. January 23, 2012 - Angela Skinner Mullen. Some couples in love share everything — from food off each other's plates to toothbrushes (ugh), and apparently even their passwords. A friend of ...

Some Teens Unaware Sex Can Cause Pregnancy | Being Pregnant
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I hate to admit it, but one of my guilty pleasures is watching the MTV show, Teen Mom. It follows the lives of girls who were featured on another MTV show 16.

We need to constantly teach and discuss the same things, have the same conversations about life, safety, sex, etc, again and again, even if we seem redundant. Teach, discuss, converse about them in the context of Biblical values, using real life examples and images that help to flesh out what we are saying.

What are the issues and principles you find it important to teach and discuss repeatedly in your student ministry?

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Perspectives from the Field: Hope Centered in God

2012-01-20T10:32:00.003-06:00

Howdo we teach hope that is centered in God in the midst of uncertain timesto our students?

“I hoped her with her problem.”

My 82-year-old grandma is from Yazoo City, Mississippi. I’mnot sure how much schooling she finished, but sometimes she uses words in whatappears to be the wrong way. I have never heard her say the word help. It’salways hope.

Can we "hope" people in these uncertain times? What might thatlook like in student ministry?

Testimony is one way to teach hope in these uncertain times.

In Revelation 12:11 it speaks of overcoming by the blood ofthe lamb and by the word of our testimony. Through the testimony we sharestories of how God is providing materially, emotionally, and spiritually. Weevaluate our life and see where God is actively moving, showing Godself, andaccomplishing the word of God in our lives.

The testimony encourages the speaker and the hearer. Itreminds us who God is in Christ and renews our hope.

My Hope is Built, the hymn offers an image of hopethat we can affirm. To sing it or read it even is a way to testify to thegoodness, mercy, and faithfulness of God in troubled times:
              When Darkness veils his lovely face,
              I rest on his unchanging grace.
              In every high and stormy gale,

My anchor holdswithin the veil

On Christ the solid rock I stand,

all other ground is sinking sand;

all other ground is sinking sand.

These uncertain and trying times are the sinking sand. Theywill not last.

Teach youth to testify, to tell the story of how God's story is shaping their lives and giving them strength and hope. Remind them that sharing whereour story intersects with God’s story is not a competition but it is for theedification of the body of the Christ.

A caution: Sometimes when people begin to share they intendto share God’s faithfulness but it turns into a sob story or pity party. As youlead testimony time be sure to remind people to focus on God’s grace andprovision.

Testimonies "hope" us in times of uncertainty.

by Charity Goodwin-Rosario
Pastor, Blue Ridge UMC

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2012-01-16T14:16:00.000-06:00

On Martin Luther King Jr day, it is only fitting that we remind ourselves of his written words and prayer. Here we go:

His religion reveals to him that God loves all His children and that the important thing about a man is not 'his specificity but hid fundamentum'—not the texture of his hair or the color of his skin but his eternal worth to God (King 1958, 180).

0 thou Eternal God, out of whose absolute power and infinite intelligence the whole universe has come into being We humbly confess that we have not loved thee with our hearts, souls arid minds and we have not loved our neighbors as Christ loved US. We have all too often lived by our own selfish impulses rather than by the life of sacrificial love as revealed by Christ. We often give in order to receive, we love our friends and hate our enemies, we go the first mile but dare not travel the second, we forgive but dare not forget And so as we look within ourselves we are confronted with the appalling fact that the history of our lives is the history of an eternal revolt against thee But thou, 0 God, have mercy upon us Forgive us for what we could have been but failed to be Give us the intelligence to know thy will. Give us the courage to do thy will Give us the devotion to love thy will. In the name and spirit of Jesus we pray. Amen.

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Keeping the Dream Alive

2012-01-13T22:42:00.000-06:00

How important are our dreams? Dr Martin Luther King Jr's dream was important enough for him to go all out to realize it not only for himself, but for humanity. This begs another question. How large are our dreams and how in line are they with God's great inclusivity as embodied in Jesus Christ?

Read the reflection of teens on Marin Luther King:

Keeping the dream alive | The Post and Courier, Charleston SC ...
www.postandcourier.com1/12/12
Charleston teens note significance of holiday honoring civil rights leader. By Dave Munday. Thursday, January 12, 2012. Tweet · photo. AP Photo/File. In this Aug. 28, 1963, black-and-white file photo Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. addresses ...

So, more needs to be taught and understood about King's life, the point of the Civil Rights Movement. We need a critical lens as we approach this and as we approach Martin Luther King Jr day. Ripple Effects gives a practical, fun, and interactive to look at issues of power, prejudice and race - tools for self-analysis and ways of moving forward and outward.

Teaching Teens Essential Skills for Democracy Keeps Martin Luther ...
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Ripple Effects Offers Free Interactive Learning Resource for Teachers and Parents to Address Link between Power, Prejudice and Ethnic Conflict San Francisco, CA (PRWEB) January 13, 2012 In honor of Martin Luther King, ...

Would you use this in your youth ministry? How are you helping your students to live into a larger, more inclusive vision?

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Social Media, Teens and Youth Ministry

2012-01-09T13:31:00.002-06:00

Social media comes in all shapes and forms and is a very present and influential reality in our midst. There are different ways in which it is used and its potential for good is vast. Let's look at a few examples.

In the blog below, the Teen Librarian's Inbox shares ideas for engaging youth using social media. Among these are activities for Facebook and Twitter.

TLT: Teen Librarian's Toolbox: Using Social Media to Engage Teens ...
teenlibrarianstoolbox.blogspot.com1/9/12
Contests: They are simple and fun ways to keep your teens engaged. They generate repeat business. They help you appeal to a wide variety of interests. In short, they work for teen librarians. Last week we discussed why I ...

Okay. So it's not specifically social media, but it's big among teens. The post below carries the news of how Third Level will carry its efforts to help teens and prevent suicide to the teens' world of texting so that troubled teens can text for help.

Texting program will help suicidal teens : News : UpNorthLive.com
www.upnorthlive.com1/7/12
The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is giving Third Level $45000 to start a new text message response system for suicidal teenagers.

Israeli researchers have found value in teens blogging in terms of diminishing stress, keeping the communication lines open and helping with self-esteem. Read more below.

Blogs May Help Teens Reduce Social Stress | Psych Central News
psychcentral.com1/5/12
Blogging may help teens improve their self-esteem and enhance friendships, a new study suggests. Moreover, the online activity is especially helpful for teens.

We could not finish this without something for the iPhone. There is the interactive Facebook and Time Warner Inc. app, " Stop Bullying: Speak Up Social Pledge" for educators, parents, and teachers.

New iPhone App Launched To Help Stop Teen Bullying | Myles N ...
www.mylesnm.com1/4/12
The app, called “Stop Bullying: Speak Up Social Pledge App” offers information on preventing the spread of cyberbullying and asks teens to sign a pledge to speak up if the witness bullying. “The Stop Bullying: Speak Up ...

Lots of useful ideas. In addition, it's good to know how people are maximizing the potential of social media (etc.) to enhance the lives of teenagers.

How are you using social media and texting among the students in your youth ministry for the glory of God?

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Perspectivs from the Field: Hope in Uncertain Times

2012-01-06T10:32:00.000-06:00

We tell students that they should turn to God in good timesand bad but do we? It’s important thatwe “walk the talk” both to be an example to our youth and to strengthen our ownrelationship with God.

2011 was a tough year with several relatives having healthissues this year. Plus, the death of myfamily’s dog left a big hole in our lives. Lots of other things happened duringthe year but those are the items that are top of mind.

Visiting with my dad in his hospital on New Year’s Day, wediscussed the previous day’s Upper Roomwhere the “Thought for the Day” on December 31, 2011, was “God has sustained methrough 2011, will walk with me through 2012” and this reminds us that no matterwhat we’ve gone through in the past, we can always rely on God.

So, while it was tough seeing relatives go through hardtimes this year, I am trying to focus on the positives with their health, therelationships we have with one another and with God and the memories I have ofeach of them.

Sometimes, it’s important to share personal stories withyouth for them to understand that this isn’t just old stories from over 2000years ago but a living faith that impacts your life on a daily basis.

How can YOU show hope through God to others during uncertaintimes?

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Youth & Young Adult Director @ Avondale United Methodist Church in KC North

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Mentor Bites: There is Hope

2012-01-02T18:05:00.000-06:00

Jeremiah 29: 11 says, “For surely I know the plans I havefor you, says the Lord, plans for your welfare and not for harm, to give you afuture with hope.”

When I was a young person growing up in church, this versefrom Jeremiah was one of my favorite scripture passages. In fact, I picked thisvery verse for my confirmation passage. One of the first messages I everpreached (during Youth Sunday at my home congregation) was focused on thistext. These days I use the scripture passage when I am anxious about the futureand what it will bring. I also bring the scripture passage up to mycongregation on a pretty regular basis, but I especially try to remember it when Italk to the youth in the congregation I serve.

There is a reason why thisscripture passage spoke to my young heart so much when I was in Middle and HighSchool. Youth are struggling to find their voice in this world. Much of theirlives are undetermined for them at this specific juncture in time. This is scary nomatter how old you are, but it is particularly so when you are young.

As mentors to young people, whether you arecurrently a mentor for the youTheology program, a youth Pastor or sponsor; Ithink it is important that we simply share the story of how God has been thecenter of our hope in times of uncertainty. Mentoring sometimes means we listento how hope seems absent. We then are invited, in the name of Jesus Christ, toshare that hope is ever-present in God. Amen and Happy 2012!

Emily Carroll

youTheology Mentor Coordinator 2011-2012

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2011-12-31T13:38:00.003-06:00

"So teach us to count our days that we may gain a wise heart. . . . Let your work be manifest to your servants, and your glorious power to their children. Let the favor of the Lord our God be upon us, and prosper for us the work of our hands— O prosper the work of our hands!" Psalm 90:12, 16-17.

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Looking Forward

2011-12-30T20:06:00.002-06:00

As we approach the end of 2011, I got to thinking of how at the end of a year we review and project to the new year. It's natural. We do it at the end of a project, a phase of life, a semester . . . . Definitely we want to do it at the end of the year, so that we move forward with renewed purpose and vigor, having assessed our strengths and weaknesses, taking forward lessons learned.

The funny thing is, as I thought of looking forward, a childhood hymn came to me: "Looking upward everyday." On reflection, it is not really strange. As people of faith, for us to really move forward, we have to look upward to God for counsel and guidance, wisdom and strength. This is God's life and the work we do is God's work.

At the end of 2011, how are you looking upward? How are you enabling your students to look upward?

Leaving every day behind
Something which might hinder;
Running swifter every day;
Growing purer, kinder—

HAVE A BLESSED, GOD-LED NEW YEAR!

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Voice and Agency

2011-12-26T22:32:00.002-06:00

Developing the art of communicating is part of the developmental process. As youth develop physically and in other areas it is important that they are given opportunities and various media to express themselves and be heard and valued. Not only does this help them to develop confidence but that the act of expressing and receiving feedback helps in the formation of identify.

Alison Mann, in the article below, uses her curricular subjects of film studies and media arts to give teens a voice which helps them to critically engage and contribute to their world.

Breaking down barriers by giving teens a voice - Parentcentral.ca
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Like all teachers, Alison Mann begins each new semester at Parkdale Collegiate Institute by introducing herself to the students. Unlike most teachers...

It is also true that often when we think of "voice" we think of the spoken word. Allowing youth to express themselves verbally is also important. The report from WebMD below references research. This research shows that when teens who are allowed to express their disagreements with their moms can better withstand peer pressure. This expression of difference occurs in an environment where teen's opinions are listened to and addressed, even when not resolved. Autonomy and resolve are strengthened.

Teens Who Can Express Themselves More Likely to Avoid Drugs
teens.webmd.com12/23/11
New research shows that teens who are able to express themselves with their moms are better able to resist peer pressure and say no to drugs and alcohol.

Giving voice is important everywhere. In the state arena, Florida is gearing up for its Teens only Town Hall Meeting. Teens get to interact with official and experts and ask their questions. It reminds me of a pastor who holds regular meetings with the youth of his congregation so that they can ask questions and raise issues affecting and/or of interest to them.

Giving students a voice | Florida Common Ground
educationfl.wordpress.com11/15/11
3, supported by more than 100 organizations, is giving students a voice in everything from early childhood education to substance abuse treatment through its “Teens Only” Town Hall Meeting. The meeting gives teens the ...

The question for us then is, how are we allowing authentic communication with youth so that they can have agency? What and where are the respectful spaces for them to communicate via the arts and verbally their deepest longings, questions, aspirations, and yes, disagreements?

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Happy Christmas!

2011-12-23T15:32:00.003-06:00

Happy Christmas from your friends at youTheology.

May you be filled with God's peace this season.

"And suddenly, there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying,

'Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace among those whom he favors!" Luke 2:13-14

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A Christmas Invitation

2011-12-21T21:12:00.001-06:00

A time to push aside the curtain of glitter
that wraps us in a haze of
sentimental astonishment
robbed of simple
awe and wonder at
God's simplicity -
a child, born to die
to save, to heal, to deliver
simply on a cross.

A time to embrace the chorus
that rises above the cacophony of
babel decked in
consumerism and bottom lines
driven by fear and greed
still missing
God - with us forever.

A time to go out in full surrender
to worship with our lives,
all that we have,
with the simple dwelling in
the fields of life
away from the center
yet close to God
and the angels.

Peace on earth.

by Claire Smith

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Teens and Drug Use

2011-12-19T14:07:00.000-06:00

In many ways, the teenage years are potentially hazardous. Teens can feel invincible and while knowing risk factors for particular behaviors, have that sense that these negative outcomes can not happen to them. Moreover, it is the age when peer pressure exerts a major influence on actions and attitudes, especially when positive, meaningful relationships with adults are absent.

This goes back to what research has told us about the teenage brain: it is still developing. Executive function is still developing and limited and often the emotional side of the brain drives behavior. It's a time of risk inasmuch as it is also at time of great potential with many positive results.

Substance abuse is one of those risk factors that keeps popping up. It seems we always have to be on the lookout for the latest trend among teens so that we can help them protect themselves from current and long term harm.

In the article below, we have a mixed report in that smoking and alcohol use are down among teens but marijuana use has increased. This includes the use of a synthetic form of marijuana that is known to be harmful.

Teens Smoking Fewer Cigarettes, More Marijuana
www.webmd.com12/14/11
Fewer teens than ever are smoking cigarettes, but marijuana use has steadily increased over the past five years, according to a new nationwide survey.

However, it is not just the synthetic form of marijuana that is problematic but synthetic drug use in general. Teens find ways of turning everyday, household items into substance abuse as we at the link read below.

Dangerous trend sends teens to ER : News : HeartlandConnection ...
www.heartlandconnection.com12/17/11
A rise in synthetic drug use is sending teens to the emergency room.

So who is at risk for and/or who is drawn to this type of behavior? Any teen. This cuts across the stereotypical boundaries and can be from any socioeconomic background as well as can include high achieving youth. In fact, the article below, which looks at prescription drug abuse, suggests that high achieving youth are very likely to experiment, given who they are. It also gives ways in which youth access drugs and notably shows that there are teens who feel that their parents will be easier on them if they abuse prescription drug vs other types.

Not My Teen: Why All Teens Are Vulnerable to Prescription Drug ...
www.lockthecabinet.com12/18/11
If you've read up on the prescription drug addiction epidemic and decided it isn't something you need to worry about, it may be time to reevaluate. Your teen could be among the one in five adolescents who report abusing prescription drugs to ...

This calls for awareness on our part in youth ministry. We need to:

Keep abreast of what the latest trend of substance abuse is,
Talk about substance abuse in broad and very specific terms,
Keep an open door for those who have experimented with and/or may be addicted and are too embarrassed to discuss it in front of the group. If necessary, we can be a bridge between the youth and the parents.
Know where students can go to for help so that we can refer them,
Remind the students who profess faith in Jesus Christ that we are the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19).
Reinforce the need for involvement in positive, life-giving activities outside of school time,
Connect youth with adult mentors,
Remind them of the need for hanging with people who share similar values and goals,
Use the faith resources of prayer, Scripture and worship.

What would you add to this list?

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Valuing Youth

2011-12-12T15:53:00.000-06:00

A week ago we noted that youth enjoy giving. Today we see youth in action in service to others, even when their situation may be seen as disadvantageous. Given the opportunity and guidance then, youth will do acts of kindness to benefit others.

The Oakland story reminds us not to write off anyone as we read about teens who have had brushes with the law making lap blankets for veterans, brainchild of their teacher..

Teacher Shares Love Of Crafts With Troubled Teens « CBS Detroit
detroit.cbslocal.com12/12/11
An Oakland County math teacher is changing the lives of troubled teens with a crochet hook and a ball of yarn.

In Prichard, AL, teens reached out to younger children by reading to them, etc. You will see this below.

Teens spread holiday cheer in Prichard | fox10tv.com
www.fox10tv.com12/11/11
Teens spread holiday cheer in Prichard. Updated: Saturday, 10 Dec 2011, 9:55 PM CST Published : Saturday, 10 Dec 2011, 8:50 PM CST. Letisha Bush. PRICHARD, Ala. (WALA) - A young man sat center stage and read a book to a full room ...

Noticing the problem of hungry teens for whom there is no provision, Retired Army Major Gene Briseno guides young Cadet Club members to reach out and be part of the solution for their classmates and others.

Hunger among teens often goes unnoticed - KansasCity.com
www.kansascity.com12/10/11
Day after day, as he monitored lunch hour at the Southwest Early College Campus, retired Army Maj. Gene Briseno would see students sitting at tables without any food in front of them.

Particularly at this time of the year when we think more of giving as we reflect on God's great gift, how are we providing opportunities for our students to bring practical solutions to everyday problems? How are we helping them to open their eyes to the need around them?

How do you do this in your student ministry?

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Teens and Technology

2011-12-09T21:15:00.001-06:00

Research shows that teens continue to increase their use of technology. Smartphones give access to the internet and, of course, texting. With available apps and software, iTouch, and tablets are phones. However, there is heartening news. Cyberbullying isn't completely widespread, as the research from Pew below shows and there are those who will challenge the bullier. This research also reveals that teens, especially older teens have a greater awareness of privacy issues and exercise caution in what they post and do use privacy controls in social media. Teens look to parents for guidance and a considerable number of parents are engaged, monitoring, and giving sound counsel on the use of social media and the internet. However, considering the large number of teens who do not exercise caution in their postings, who share passwords and the number who lie about their age in order to have access to social media, there is cause for concern. Moreover, there remains a sizable number of unengaged parents.

Teens, kindness and cruelty on social network sites: Pew Internet Research

Below, is an infographic that gives the findings from the Pew research noted and lined above in one view. Yes, there is cruelty, but it is not as widespread as the title below suggests. Nevertheless, it is a good way of accessing the Pew data using a different lens.

Teens' cruel world of social networking [infographic] - Holy Kaw!
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Teens' cruel world of social networking [infographic]. Posted Dec 8th, 2011 at 4:44 PM and seen. times. Tweet. (Click on the infographic below to learn more.) Via Column Five for ZoneAlarm. Like infographics? So do we. ...

While we're all happy to know that sexting is not as widespread as we would have been led to believe, 10 percent is still a significant number and should not be dismissed. Fortunately, not many of these images go viral. However, the impact on the victim in the few cases when they do is not to be underestimated. So we're thankful, but still concerned and needing to be proactive.

1 in 100 Teens Involved in Sexting | Psych Central News
psychcentral.com12/6/11
Although teen sexting is a subject of controversy, new research suggests concern about the practice may be overblown. New studies from the University of New.

One cyber cop certainly sees the need for proactive engagement, wise counsel, control, and monitoring. He warns against "digital tunnels" because teens know how to and do embed content that is not appropriate in ways that would make it very difficult for parents and other adults to find, even when they are monitoring teens' use of the internet. He further gives advice on how parents could get their children to disconnect.

Cyber cop warns of secret teen world | vuong, teens, computer ...
www.ocregister.com12/9/11
Home: Cyber cop warns of secret teen world | vuong, teens, computer, parents, phone, digital, kids, fight, internet, technology.

I would suggest that we can do some of these and other things in our youth ministry, using Matthew 5:13-16 and Matthew 7:12 as our framework:

Applaud youth when they use technology appropriately and wisely.
Encourage youth to be thoughtful and respectful of themselves and others in how they use technology.
Give practical advise and examples of safe and unsafe, respectful and disrespectful online and texting practices.
Have youth identify ways of glorifying God in their online and texting presence.
Have youth disconnect at appropriate times and find meaning and fulfillment outside of technology.

What other Scriptures and ideas can you think of? What would you add?

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Philanthropy: Loving God, Loving Neighbor

2011-12-05T10:23:00.001-06:00

"In all this I have given you an example that by such work we must support the weak, remembering the words of the Lord Jesus, for he himself said, 'It is more blessed to give than to receive'" (Acts 20:35).

Throughout the Bible we are told in word and example that we are be concerned about and proactive on behalf of those who are less fortunate; we are to give and not look for reward. We see this is Jesus' life and we remember his rendering of the two greatest commandments: "He said to him, 'You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.' This is the greatest and first commandment. And a second is like it: "You shall love your neighbor as yourself.'" (Matthew 22:37-39).

People find joy in giving and serving and today's youth are no exception. Just read the articles below:

Teens build home from inside jail | WCBD-TV 2
www2.counton2.com12/2/11
Teens incarcerated at the state Department of Juvenile Justice hammered the first nails of a home they will build on Friday.

Laura Arrillaga-Andreessen: Philanthroteens: Transforming Teens ...
www.huffingtonpost.com11/29/11
When it comes to giving, we can draw inspiring lessons from today's youth. The volunteer rate among sixteen- to nineteen-year-olds, in terms of hours given, has almost doubled since 1989, according to the Corporation for ...

Red Thread Promise: New Orleans youth takes philanthropy to heart
redthreadpromise.blogspot.com11/15/11
New Orleans youth takes philanthropy to heart. Fr. Sadoni, Director of St. Vincent's, and Marigny, Hahnville High School senior. We trust by now you all know how much The Red Thread Promise values youth participation in ...

Whether it be organized, or spontaneous, youth are volunteering and helping others in significant numbers. Think of the way they are eager to go on mission trips.

The question for us as youth leaders/pastors/volunteers, etc, is how are we helping them connect what they do with our scriptural injunction to love God and neighbor?

Teach us, good Lord, to serve you as you deserve;
to give and not to count the cost;
to fight and not to heed the wounds;
to toil and not to seek for rest;
to labour and not to ask for any reward,
save that of knowing that we do your will.

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Perspectives from the Field: Peace Should be More Than a Phrase on a Christmas Card

2011-12-02T15:27:00.001-06:00

You’ve probably seen a greeting card that had the word“Peace” and it might have even included “Love” or maybe it said “Peace onEarth” but did the words have any meaning?

Memories of Christmas always make me think of two songs(“Peace on Earth” and “Silent Night”) with both being sung at the same time onChristmas Eve. It sounds beautiful butit’s also a great reminder of an important part of what Christmas is all about.

Another holiday memory associated with church was actuallyon New Year’s and was with my college youth group when we had a peace vigilbefore Desert Storm. This was verypersonal to me as my college roommate was among those going to Kuwait thatyear. Little did I know that my own sonwould be spending a year in Iraqthe NEXT time that our nation wentto war with Iraq. Now as we approach another holiday season,we’ve been promised that our troops will come home.

Of course, Peace isn’t just about things happening on theother side of the world or the presence or absence of war. Peace includes how you treat your family, howyou treat your friends, how you treat your neighbors and how you treat yourenemies. That’s right, we need to remember to look for peace with those welove, those we like, those we hardly know and even those that we really wouldrather not interact with.

Each month, I close my blog with “youTheology: Loving God, Loving Neighbor” but haveyou thought about what that phrase really means? If we LOVE God and we also LOVE ourNeighbor, Peace should be a natural part of who we are as Christians. I’ve now added the youTheology MissionStatement: “Developing Faithful Leadersfor a Diverse Church and World, Now and In the Future.” This includes reaching out to others that aredifferent than us and creating an environment for peace today and tomorrow.

We need to make sure our youth understand that Peace andLove aren’t something that you TALKabout; they aren’t just concepts; they are a way of life.

Speak up! Whatare YOU going to do this Christmas season to show youth (and adults) an exampleof how to follow the Prince of Peace?

by Mark Whitaker

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A vondale United Methodist Church in Kansas City MO(North of the River)

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Vulnerable Teens

2011-11-28T13:11:00.001-06:00

We know that Jesus interacted and reached out to the vulnerable in his society and those who were on the fringes. We are challenged in youth ministry to do the same. However, sometimes we limit our understanding of the vulnerable and people on the margins to people in poverty and/or in other locations other than ours. But there are groups within out midst that we are in danger of ignoring.

Futurity.org – Teens with autism often socially isolated
www.futurity.org11/28/11

Drawing on research out of Washington University, Jessica Martin reminds us that adolescents with autism spectrum disorders are limited in their social interactions in inclusive settings. This raises for us the question of how can we ensure that our youth ministries are inclusive and that we do not unwittingly leave others out because we do not have them on our radar.

Teen Depression: Signs, Treatment, Help
teens.webmd.com11/22/11
WebMD discusses the possible signs of depression in teens. Here, Gina Shaw gives teens signs to look out for their own depression as well as intervention strategies. This is a good list for youth workers as well. It is easy to access and can help us as we work with youth who may be depressed to recognize the signs and be in a better position to help them. There are many such adolescents and they also are vulnerable.

Understand your Teen's Wild Decisions | GROW
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If you have been around a teen for more than an hour you will start to realize teens make decisions in the world differently than adults.
And so Jennifer Wilmoth reminds us of the vulnerability of teenagers in their process of becoming. Because of the way their brain is developing, they are often driven more by emotion than by rationale thinking, though they have the capacity for great logical reasoning. What she say to parents is true for youth ministers - guide them in decision making.

"Whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me" Matthew 18:5.

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Facebook and Youth Ministry

2011-11-24T21:04:00.001-06:00

For many people, using Facebook is like breathing. For others, not so much but it is still a part of their lives. Many of us who work with youth entered the world of Facebook before it was as big a buzz as it is now out of a desire to locate and/or connect with our youth outside the ministry setting.

Ryan Langeland, Director of Youth Ministries at Manchester UMC, gives good guidelines for using Facebook for adults who work with youth. There are many helpful insights in his chapter, "Engaging the Facebook Community," in Youth Ministry in a Technological Age. What's really neat is that he recognizes that even when there is a separate group for the ministry, what we post on our own page can still be seen and needs to be in harmony with what we profess. Very importantly, he advocates similar boundaries to safe sanctuary or youth protection training in using Facebook..

What do you consider appropriate use of Facebook as a youth minister and in using it as a youth ministry tool?

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Connecting and Connections and Ah-ha Moments

2011-11-21T18:08:00.001-06:00

Last week I was in Oklahoma and had the joy of connecting with members of the youTheology community - alumni, past and present mentors and pastors of partner congregations. This was a joy. I was at First UMC in Enid that Sunday and was able to worship with them and chat a little at the end of service. Something unique happened during my Oklahoma stay. I was able to sit in on a mentor-youTheologian time. This was a first.

Rev Thomas and Brandy reflected on their mentor-mentee relationship and time together. One thing that came out was the "ah-ha moments that happen during that time. The type of learning that happens in a one-on-one setting is different and special. It was also a ah-ha moment for me. Hear them talk about their time together below and think about how you engage your students so that they have those ah-ha moments:

I am very grateful for the opportunity and blessing of connecting with everyone. I give God thanks for you all.

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Perspectives from the Field: How to Keep Going in Ministry

2011-11-18T09:58:00.001-06:00

I’llnever forget my first youth ministry conference. It was a huge event. I had the coolbag and order of the week. I arrived early, scouted out the place, then satdown to circle all the workshops I would attend. It was going to be packed withlearning. I was excited. At the same time, however, I was tired. It was nicethough, to focus on ministry by learning instead of teaching, leading, andtraining. I tried to convince myself that changing my focus was rejuvenating.

Openingworship began. The band played, we worshiped. The event’s organizer cameforth to speak. He welcomed us and shared his vision about the week. He said, Iwant this event to be just what you need. So if you need to learn, go toworkshops. If you need to socialize with others in youth ministry, skip theworkshops and talk in the living rooms set up around the center. Then hesaid it. If you need to rest, take this time to sleep, pray, andreconnect with God. I was shocked.

It’strue; I needed rest – even if I had to pay for it!

Itseems and feels counter-intuitive, however, in order to persevere in ministry Ifind that rest is the best. It’s finding time for Sabbath – to be and not do.We are human beings after all not human doings. Each week I have a day ofbeing. When I wake up, I ask God, what do you want to do today? Sometimes I goto the park or listen to music. Other days I stay in my pajamas and play with mydog. I don’t plan ministry. I don’t read the book I’ve been waiting to crackopen. I celebrate the God in me.

I’mnot sure when you feel there is a lull in your ministry… I rarely felt that Iexperienced that. We were always on the go. Here’s what I am learning. To keepup a pace of ministry, I need to rest and receive God’s spirit into my lifeagain and again. Jesus invites us to come to him…all of us who are weary andheavy laden and He will give us rest.

Ichallenge you, if you cannot find time to rest, I ask to whom does yourministry belong? In our might we will exhaust. Only through Christ andhis power can we lead and care for God’s families in our churches.

Mayyou find rest on the journey!

by Charity Goodwin-Rosario

Pastor, Blue Ridge UMC

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Youth: Make a Difference

2011-11-16T20:43:00.001-06:00

Older generations try to understand youth with varying degrees of success. I think it has to do with our level of interaction with youth and/or our attitude. The two are closely related. It is hard to understand people with whom one has limited or no deep and meaningful interaction. This lack of interaction can lead to stereotyping, which is often negative.

It's hard to have a positive image of young people when you simply go by news reports and the comments of people who see them only through their own lenses and their own desires. These are often people who do not understand young people on young people's own terms.

Of course I'm biased. I've worked with young people, it seems like forever. I see them as people with tremendous strengths and gifts that the church and the world need, now. I'm not uncritical and naive. They have some weaknesses as we all do. And, they are in the process of becoming in a much sharper way than the rest of us.However, all in all, they are delightful and eager to please and make a difference, especially this generation of youth, often referred to as the Millenials.

The Millennial generation is one about which much has been spoken and written, both positive and negative. It's a perspective issue. William Strauss and Neil Howe describe them as "optimists" (Strauss and Howe 2206, 41), citing research in which Millennials describe themselves. I would have to agree. They see possibilities and where many of us pull back, they plunge forward with amazing effectiveness. Just recently, Rachel Wheeler's story made the news. At 12 years old she has already built 27 homes in Haiti. See the Huffington Post. I think also of the youTheology students and alumni who are volunteering at different places and doing amazing things with their lives. Optimism is good when it is purposeful.

Another way of looking at Millennials, young people, is seeing them as idealistic. Ruben Navarrette seems skeptical of this idealism that seeks to find solutions to problem in his piece, "Entitled to Idealism." But then, the conversation he reported put a whole different spin on the "sense of entitlement" young people are supposed to have. It's quite a shift - negative to positive.For me I still see it more as optimism. There is a connotation to idealism that it's difficult to beat. For some, it could be positive, for others negative.

Whether you think of it as optimism or idealism, young people are dreaming dreams and taking concrete actions to make the world a better place. The questions for us are:

What example are we setting in this regard?
How are we nurturing the dreams and the desires?
How are we making space for these stories?
How are we helping them to connect these with God's love, reign and mission?

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Different Times

2011-11-14T23:52:00.001-06:00

So what's new? The times in which we live. Times in which the intensity and venues for bullying, like much else in our world, has escalated tremendously. This leaves us with questions as parents, youth workers, and other caring adults. Questions as to how to prepare students for, protect them from, and prevent bullying.

My heart goes out to the mother of Ashlynn Conner who, as a single parent, did all that she knew to do. Could one have asked more of her? No. And yet, having done her best to prepare her child for what could be a cruel world she now mourns the loss of her daughter. We have to pray for her comfort and the too many mothers who mourn the loss of their children, particularly through suicide related bullying. In Stacy Conner's own words as reported by The Huffington Post: "'"I thought my kids were strong," Connor said. "That my words to them for guidance and advice would have more weight than what these kids were saying. I was wrong.'"The pressure from outside was too much, even with all the positive that was given on the inside.

These are different times.Youth don't only face bullying the in face-to-face space of school, but also online, and through text messages. It is all pervasive. Sometimes it cannot be switched off.

Adolescents are at a vulnerable stage in their development and bullying attacks them in all the vulnerable areas and places of development: physical, physiological, emotional, social, etc. It is a different time for them; a time when they need support and affirmation as they seek to discover who they are and who God has made them to be.

While we do not have all the answers in youth and student ministry, this does leave us with some questions?

How are we creating safe spaces for youth to tell their stories so that their hopes, fears, dreams, aspirations, and real life situations can be brought into the light and they get the help they need? Safety in terms of confidentiality, a non-judgmental, open and accepting approach in a space that is unhurried and where the focus is on the students and not the program.
How do we teach our students the various ways in which bullying occurs and help them to see that what may seem cool to some can be and often is detrimental to others?
How do we help them to see that bullying runs counter to our faith and loving God and neighbor as we are commanded?
How do we give them the resources to deal with bullying, whether it be speaking against it, reporting it, educating about it, etc?
How do we point them to God?

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Just Serve

2011-11-11T21:01:00.001-06:00

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I was privileged to have conversation with a young lady earlier today whose chosen path is public service. She is still in college, getting ready to graduate but is very clear on her chosen path. Specifically, she has an interest in education, recognizing the inequities in the educational system and the way in which certain sections of the population are undereducated.

What is noteworthy and admirable is that this young lady is not waiting until she fulfills her career dreams and is an elected official. Right here and right now she has begun to make a difference. She works with young people who are poorly educated in school and helps them to move beyond where they are and where their circumstances seem to allow them to be. She is teaching them and helping a younger generation dream bigger dreams and prepare for college.

This raises some questions. How are we faithful in the here and now with what God has entrusted us? Are we serving faithfully or are we waiting for that big moment.

What type of care and concern do the students in our ministries show for those who are underserved and how are we encouraging them to be involved in an ongoing way, whether small or big, to bring change? This would be to walk as Jesus walked.

If our students are underserved, how are we inspiring them and practically helping them to move beyond where they are?

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Perspectives from the Field: When you “Run the Race” is it a Sprint or a Marathon?

2011-11-03T18:37:00.000-05:00

For those of us that work with youth, we often focus on thenext meeting or next event but we need to make sure that we’re working withlong-term and the end goal in mind.

Many times we’re not going to see how our youth turn out orhow their faith journey evolves. However, that doesn’t mean our role in that path is any lessimportant. Sometimes we are planting aseed and might not see the growth. Othertimes, we’re the ones that benefit from the work of others as we see the lightturn on as someone accepts Christ or grows in their faith.

One way to increase your chances of seeing someone catch aspark is by getting involved with youTheology. The high school youth in the year-long program are able to explore theirfaith with a mentor and it culminates in the Pan-Methodist Pilgrimage.

I’ve been fortunate enough to see some of the youth I onceled grow up to be active members of my congregation. I even have one of my “alumni” that now has ason involved in Youth Group. The sonspoke during the youTheology One Day event this Fall while the father isjoining me in the youTheology Think Tank.

Encourage your youth to learn and grow their own faith so thatit’s not dependent on the next big event or youth trip. You want to make sure that their faith canmake it through the hard times and not just the fun, exciting ones. Of course, the same goes for you as a YouthLeader; you need to have a support system to help your faith endure through thehills and valleys of youth ministry.

What do YOU do to help your Youth Ministry endure?

by Mark Whitaker

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Meaningful Connections

2011-11-02T18:58:00.000-05:00

We like being connected. At a deeper level, we need to be connected. But is it as simple as having many friends and/or connections and/or followers online? That may be a part of it, but always, we will need more. I guess that's why online groups and communities spring up; some open to anyone, some closed and only for a particular group. Having myriads of connections simply does not cut it.We want, make that we need more.

One of the things I say in Youth Ministry in a Technological Age is that "Substantial relationships are necessary to our being. . . . God has made us in such a way that we need God and each other. . . we need to relate to each other in ways that are genuine and life-giving. Membership in a significant community is a necessary part of how we come to know ourselves and how we grow."

Many students come to our ministries seeking significant relationships, meaningful connections. How significant are the communities of our student ministries for faith development? What do you see?

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Beyond Ourselves

2011-10-31T23:59:00.001-05:00

One of the blessings at youTheology is hearing from people who are not directly connected with the program that it matters; that youTheology is making a difference.

That God is working through the program is something we believe. We know and see it in many of our alumni. They say it. However, when people who do not have as direct a connection throw in their lot and commit to the future of the youTheology because they see it's value, we give thanks to God and welcome them.

Our community is expanding to include people who will work with us envisage and enact new possibilities and ways of sustaining and strengthening what we have. Thanks be to God. Let us keep praying.

www.youtheology.org
Loving God, Loving Neighbor

Responsible Presence

2011-10-28T23:22:00.000-05:00

"An incarnational approach [to technology in youth ministry] calls for us to love young people enough to be present in the spaces they inhabit so that we can build relationships, communicate in relevant ways, and model and encourage faithful living as we respond to God's love through incarnational living" (Smith 2011, 6).

We go where young people are, but we go responsibly, recognizing our call as leaders to hold up the light, God's light.

How are you holding up the light to your students in the area of technology?

www.youtheology.org
Loving God, Loving Neighbor

youTheology: The Difference

2011-10-24T11:27:00.000-05:00

Sometimes people wonder what effect youTheology has.They know it's a good program in general terms, but what difference does itmake. From time to time, we seek to answer this through the voices of ouralumni. Last week, Jarrad blogged about the impact youTheology has hadon his life. In the two videos below, Alex talks about what she took away from youTheologyand how it has affected her and the choices she makes.. Click on the images below tofind out more.

www.youtheology.org
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Persepctives From the Field: We Serve

2011-10-21T10:20:00.000-05:00

“Jesus called them together and said,“You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their highofficials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wantsto become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be firstmust be your slave, just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but toserve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” Matthew 20:25-28

One of themajor desires in our ministry is to show students the meaning of a Kingdomlife. What does it mean for a high school student or for a middle schoolstudent to live a life advancing and living in the Kingdom of God? This is adeep and multi faceted question and you could fill the pages of numerous bookswith the different ideas and examples of how this is done. For our ministry oneof the most essential ways we attempt to teach this and live the Kingdom out isthrough the act of service.

I recently hadthe opportunity to speak to a group of students at a local High School’sleadership retreat. I spoke from the twentieth chapter of Matthew andspecifically from verses twenty-five through twenty-eight. What a deeplyprofound and foreign concept of leadership and personal worth! Jesus is callingus as believers to be a people who are known not by the amount of power we canobtain through coercion and domination but through our capacity to giveourselves completely away through service! That’s incredible!

You do not have tobe gifted, talented, wealthy, high class, low class, a specific race,ethnicity, or age to serve. All you have to do is be willing to pour yourselfout in the same way the Christ did for us. God’s calling and exemplification ofserving are so fundamental to our faith that if we took it out of scripture,we’d be left with blank pages and a front and back cover.

So how do werespond to such a life changing truth? We serve. We find ways, everyday, toplace the needs of our friends, family, and yes especially our enemies aboveours. Another way we live this out is by asking ourselves a few simplequestions: Where is there need? What can I do?

I promisethis. If you in your life, everyday, spend time asking yourself those twoquestions, without even realizing it you will be knee deep in the Kingdom ofGod and our beautiful Savior’s holy work on our earth!

by Jay Smith
Coordinator of High School Ministries
Church of the Servant

www.youtheology.org
Loving God, Loving Neighbor

Reflections of a youTheology alum.

2011-10-17T17:25:00.000-05:00

My name is JarradLehman, youTheologian in 2003-2004, the first year of the program at Saint PaulSchool of Theology in Kansas City.

youTheology opened my eyes to Methodism. I grew up Methodist, but neverreally knew what or where it came from. It was very interesting to learn whereeverything came from. I was mostimpacted by what I learned about John Wesley. Learning about his life and the things he did has helped guide me in thetype of person that I want to be and to share and show how God cares for usall.

CurrentlyI am a student at ISU (Iowa State) and plan on finishing December of 2013 witha focus in Industrial Technology. I wantto be a manufacturing or process engineer. My hope/dream would be to bring manufacturing ideas and concepts toother countries in mission type work.

Thispast summer I had an amazing experience going on a mission trip to Nigeria. There I learned how important mission is forme. I would love to continue with thisin the future. That is why I would like to take some of my manufacturingbackground and possibly bring ideas to areas such as this as a major part of myfuture. So, while I focus on finishingschool, I also am trying to get involved in more mission type activities.

Acouple of my friends, after we graduated from high school, became very involvedin our youth program by being the senior high youth leaders. This was a verylarge commitment by them. And I startedbecoming involved in their activities as well. The youth of the church are veryimportant and we tried to help show this by becoming involved in leading thisgroup.

God is always at work in everything we do. By listening andfollowing God we can help others and show them the compassion and great worksof our Lord. By being Christians we needto be Christ-like in everything we do to help show God’s/Christ’s love to theworld and each person.

by Jarrad Lehman
www.youtheology.org
Loving God, Loving Neighbor

Perspectives from the Field: Bended-knee Service

2011-10-14T11:25:00.000-05:00

1 Timothy 2:1-7

A Call to Prayer

First of all, then, I urge that entreaties andprayers, petitions and thanksgivings, be made on behalf of all men . . . Continue reading 1 Timothy 2:1-7.

Service takes many shapes in a youth ministry and church andit should. Many times, however, I have experienced service in a singular way:primarily the hands-on, mission trip or local service day. This kind of serviceis important and formational for youth and those who work with them. Oftenmission trips bring scripture to life. They unify groups, even if andespecially when there is the drama and there is often drama when wego on these trips! Mission trips have a way ofmagnifying our heart for God through the work we do. Let’s face it, when wecome back, we are amped up! I love that feeling.

I offer, however, another type of service integral in ayouth ministry and church. This service is the outward-focused service of praying forthose unconnected, disconnected, hurting and longing for something but can’tput a finger on it. Pray for hearts to be open to receive God’s grace. Pray forlives to be changed by the renewing Holy Spirit. Pray by name for those we knowdesire yet struggle with faith and Christ. Together, in our youth ministries,we can impact the reign of God through a service of prayer. For it is in prayerthat hearts and lives change; ours and those for whom we pray.

For some it is easier and more exciting to do a mission tripthan it is to pray. I get that. I encourage you to expand your service toinclude praying for those who have a desire to belong and believe.

In what ways do you incorporate outward-focused prayer(intercession) in your youth ministry?

By Charity Goodwin-Rosario

Pastor

Blue Ridge UMC, Kansas City, MO

www.youtheology.org
Loving God, Loving Neighbor

Perspectives from the Field: Service

2011-10-07T11:56:00.000-05:00

The other day afriend asked why I help others. I responded that it is a question of HOWto help others, not WHETHER to help others.

Reflecting on this conversation, this is something that we need to share withyouth. God calls us to be His hands and feet and to love one another. This can come in many forms but it is important to find ways to serveothers, whether in our own community or on the other side of the world.

How do YOU serve and what are you teaching youth about service?

Mark Whitaker
youTheology Advisory Board member
Youth & Young Adult Director @ Avondale UMC

www.youtheology.org
Loving God, Loving Neighbor

Mentor Bites: When It is Hardest, Care as God Cares

2011-10-03T12:58:00.000-05:00

I am writing this blog with a heavy heart. And I also writewith a bit of disbelief, because, if a year ago, I posted a blog that had to do with bullying related suicide with a heavy heart. Today, andagain, I simply cannot be silent about this issue. God keeps calling me to beoutspoken about this and let me tell you, I would rather not confront it.

I am the Mentor Coordinator for the youTheology program, and it is a rewarding ministry where I get tohelp adults who care about youth. At the same time, I am serving a congregationin Fulton, Missouri. Fulton is a small town of about 12, 000 so if you do notlive here, then you probably have not heard about the hurt and confusion thatthe town is facing right now. Last Friday, I received a call from one of thetwo youth pastors who is on the staff of the congregation I serve. She wasdistraught and all I could really understand was that a young person had takenher own life and that it would affect our youth group.

As I drove to the home where everyone was gathering, Iprayed. I prayed that God would give me the words. I prayed that I would be thepresence of Christ that these people would need so very much. What I found wasa young man who had discovered the grim scene of his girlfriend who had takenher own life and a family that was heartbroken. The girl’s family was so shocked,they could not speak. This last week of ministry has been somewhat of a haze.Listening to my youth and the adults of my congregation has been heartwrenching.

Suicide affects everyone, whether or not we want to admit itor not. But, to be honest, I do not always like to admit that. The messagesthat I received from my own family and community, my own CHURCH about suicide whenI was a little girl were all negative. They said suicide is shameful; the person who takes his/her own life commits the one sin that separates them from Godforever; we should pray for their soul; we should not talk about it anymore; weshould hide it, lie about it.

My pastoral response this week has beenhard. This suicide represents the exact thing I wanted to run from! It has beenhard to talk about it, to preach about it … just to confront it honestly. Tohear and ask the hard questions right along with my congregation has been myresponse. The hardest part of this whole thing for everyone has been that theyoung girl showed no one any “signs” that she would do this one day. She toldno one that she was considering it. She had the brightest smile that you haveever seen. And yet, she made this decision. What went wrong? What did all of usmiss? Honestly, I am not sure. But I do know that there is so much shame andblame, embarrassment and harassment that go along with what our young peopleare experiencing these days. Maybe this young girl was afraid to even tellanyone, because her reasons had already been shot down as “sinful,” “a phase,”or “just plain stupid.”

I am not sure what happened. And none of us will ever know.But what I do know is that God cares for our young people. We are called tocare for them as well. Let us not dismiss their honest questions and deepyearnings. Let us see them as Christ does. Amen.

by Emily Carroll

youTheology Mentor Coordinator

www.youtheology.org
Loving God, Loving Neighbor

And Why Do we Do it?

2011-09-29T19:42:00.000-05:00

While looking again at the report, The Science of Adolescent Risk-Taking, I was reminded of the vulnerability of the adolescent period. Note that on page 2 of this report, the writers put adolescence between late teens and early twenties. There are many behaviors with serious negative consequences that adolescents engage in which put them at risk. These risky behaviors are more prone to happen given certain conditions, including family, community, and other types of involvement.

Oftentimes, when adults think of the risky behaviors that adolescents can get involved in, they move to the need to involve them in meaningful activities. For many, this is a justification for youth groups at church. But is that why we are here? What about the gospel?

What do you think? Why should a church run a youth group program?

www.youtheology.org
Loving God, Loving Neighbor

Remembering Who We Are as Adults and Why We Matter to Youth

2011-09-23T18:40:00.000-05:00

We often wonder why adults are sometimes reluctant to get involved in our youth ministries or with youth. I have discovered that sometimes this is because of a sense of inadequacy. Adults may feel they are not hip or cool enough. They may feel too out of touch, especially if they do not have children or grandchildren. To be honest, sometimes adults are a bit intimidated because they are not up with technology, etc. I am sure you can name some other reasons.

Here are some things for us as adults to remember and/or for you to share with adults in your church:

We share a common humanity, so we all breathe the same air, feel pain, bleed, walk, talk, sleep, etc.
Adults have ears and can listen. Youth need people in their lives who will listen to their fears, hopes, and dreams.
We can empathize and celebrate. Youth are looking for people who not only listen, but care enough to empathize with their pain, insecurities and fears and also celebrate their successes and the coming to fruition of their hopes and dreams.
As we grow in God's love we can offer young people unconditional love , something desperately needed in our broken world.
We have wisdom to share from life experiences. We may not be up with all the tech, gadgets and aps, but we have learned a thing or two along the way.
We have other skills, an example of which is seen in the photo above.

What would you add to this list?

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Loving God, Loving Neighbor

To Connect

2011-09-20T17:07:00.000-05:00

It's what we see before us; adolescents and younger adults who are more open to the world, having lived with greater diversity. It's large and on average well educated. Definitely, they are connected, having grown up with technology and been surrounded by it forever, pretty much. The statistics below from the Pew Internet American Life Project tell the story. Take a look.

The State of Millennials

View more presentations from Pew Research Center's Internet & American Life Project

How will you best engage students in your ministry?

www.youtheology.org
Loving God, Loving Neighbor

Those Gifts

2011-08-31T18:18:00.000-05:00

A few Sundays ago I was visiting the church of which a couple of our alumna are members. I attended the second worship service. Someone passed me the attendance pad. As I was about to write my name, I looked a few lines above and realized that one of our alumni, class of 2007, had attended the earlier service. In addition, another one, class of 2011 had been helping in the nursery during the earlier service.

It's always a joy to see and hear about the witness of our alumni. Not so long before that visit, I'd had the privilege of hearing another alumna accompany a service. Music is so important in worship.

I count these as gifts, to know that so many of our alumni are still pressing on and serving the Lord, witnessing faithfully to how God has called them. We will continue to hold them up in our prayers.

www.youtheology.org
Loving God, Loving Neighbor

And It's Good

2011-08-15T18:51:00.000-05:00

We are really blessed at youTheology. Each year, we welcome an outstanding group of youth and their mentors to the Saint Paul School of Theology campus in Kansas City, MO and are joined by video link with another excellent group at Lydia Patterson Institute in El Paso, TX. We have a great group of leaders.

It is a special time of discovery of talents and finding one's place and voice as community is built. It is God's time as we place our activities within the framework of prayer and offering to God all that we are and bring. This was the case from August 4 - 7, 2011 when we welcomed the new group of youTheologians and their mentors. This Saturday, we will experience this in a condensed form at our One God, One Day, One Love Event. What a privilege!

This is all God's work, and it's good.

www.youtheology.org
Loving God, Loving Neighbor

Perspectives from the Field: Crazy Busy Summer

2011-08-12T09:58:00.000-05:00

Summer is supposed to be a time to rest & relax so why does it seem like it’s crazier than ever? Trying to coordinate everyone’s schedule can be a challenge. And when you get together, it’s important to find the right mix to make sure they’re having fun but also growing closer to one another and closer to God.

It’s a good idea to exchange ideas with other youth leaders to find out what worked for them, realizing that you might need to modify their ideas to fit your program. Also, consider getting involved with other youth groups to do stuff together that you might not be able to do on your own. For example, my youth group participates in a Mission Trip organized by the Missouri Conference of the United Methodist Church. Over the last few years, my youth have been to Kennet, Jefferson City and St. Joseph (all in Missouri) as well as Cherokee Nation (Oklahoma), New Orleans and Colorado Springs.

We also regularly participate in Festival of Sharing (in Sedalia in October) as well as WOW (in Springfield in January) which are now circled dates on our annual calendar.

One event to consider is youTheology’s "ONE God, ONE Day, ONE Love" event which takes place on August 20th. You just need to round up your youth, show up and participate as we’ve already planned out the details. To learn more, please visit www.youtheology.com/oneday plus you can LIKE youTheology on Facebook @ www.facebook.com/youTheology

by Mark Whitaker

Youth & Young Adult Director, Communications Coordinator, & Scouting Rep

Avondale United Methodist Church in Kansas City MO (North of the River)

Advisory Board for youTheology / Marketing Coordinator

www.youtheology.com
Loving God, Loving Neighbor

Avoiding Silos

2011-08-03T12:39:00.000-05:00

Dr Doug Powe makes a relevant point about silos and community in his chapter, "Race: Grace and Unity in the Post-Civil Rights Era" in Generation Rising: A Future With Hope for the United Methodist Church. He makes the distinction between the Pre-Civil Rights era when a vertical vision of society in which one's awareness of others was confined to those like oneself, the silo vision, with the Post-Civil Rights era where there is greater awareness of and interaction with those not like ourselves.

A question this raises for us is, how far have we gone beyond the silo in the make up and interaction of the various communities with which we are connected, especially our student groups?

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Loving God, Loving Neighbor

youTheology in Illinois

2011-07-19T20:01:00.000-05:00

youTheology Great Rivers/St. Louis Metro yT-pod is up and running. We give God thanks!
So here we are at Little Grassy Camp in Illinois following the same curriculum as the groups at Saint Paul School of Theology and Lydia Patterson Institute. It is exciting to see it coming to life in a different setting with different teachers in a style that works for the audience.
youTheology in Illinois is unique. It is all male, which is great. The Illinois Great Rivers UMC Conference is raising up a group of male leaders and youTheology is privileged to be a part of it.
Let us pray this group of young men---that they would grow in the faith and be steadfast in Christ.
You are welcome to check out pictures and videos of what’s happening in Illinois on the youTheology facebook page…www.facebook.com/youTheology

www.youtheology.com
Loving God, Loving Neighbor

Perspectives from the Field: 2nd Annual "ONE God, ONE Day, ONE Love" event

2011-07-15T09:57:00.000-05:00

Please mark your calendars for August 20, 2011, to join in on youTheology's 2nd Annual "ONE God, ONE Day, ONE Love" event.

This is an opportunity to meet with youth from different Methodist churches (AME, AME Zion, CME, and UMC) for a time of worship, community building, and service as well as a time to reflect on the work we do together. We hope that YOU and the youth from your congregation will be able to join us on Saturday, August 20th.

Last year, my youth were able to participate and had a good experience as they worshiped with other youth, had time to get to know one another, served the community and then came together to reflect on the day. My group plans to return this year and I hope you can join us for ONE God, ONE Day, ONE Love. Online Registration DUE August 1st.

Here are all the details:
* WHEN? Saturday, August 20, 2011
* WHERE? Saint Paul School of Theology and area community service organizations
* HOW LONG? 9.30 am - 4.00 pm (worship, lunch, community service and reflection)
* WHO? Middle & High School Students and Youth Workers (youth must be accompanied by adults; 2 adults for every 10 youth)
* COST? $7 per person pre-registration (www.youtheology.com/onedayregister; online registration deadline is August 1, 2011) or $10 per person registering on the day of the event
* For more information, please visit www.youtheology.com/oneday plus you can also LIKE us on Facebook @ www.facebook.com/youTheology.

youTheology is a Saint Paul Schol of Theology Pan-Methodist program that is preparing leaders, deepening faith, providing curriculum resources, and giving opportunities for loving and serving God and others with high school students and youth workers.

"You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength, and with all your mind; and your neighbor as yourself." Luke 10:27

by Mark Whitaker
~~Youth & Young Adult Director, Communications Coordinator, & Scouting Rep
Avondale United Methodist Church in Kansas City MO (North of the River)
~~Marketing Coordinator - youTheology Advisory Board

www.youtheology.com
Loving God, Loving Neighbor

What's Your Message?

2011-07-14T08:37:00.000-05:00

This is a question we need to keep at the forefront of our ministry with youth: "What's your message?" It's a question that can easily get lost in the busyness of youth ministry and yet it is critical to our enterprise. It also helps to clarify why we do what we do.

Youth ministry is multifaceted. It involves programs, some of which are very complicated and dynamic. It also involves administrative details and managing relationships at many levels. I am sure you can add to this. As youth workers, we can be kept quite busy, especially those whose primary employment is outside the church. Lots of demands. It is easy to lose sight of the message.

In "Internet Ministry: Delivering the Message in Cyberspace," Shane Raynor reminds us of the importance of methods being in service of the message; a message that does not change. He advocates the use of the internet but reminds us that we need to be like John Wesley in that when he adapted new methods, it was because of the importance of the message and the need to get it out to as wide an audience as possible. Raynor

So what is the message? Raynor sums it up thus as he breaks down prevenient, justifying, and sanctifying grace: "Jesus Christ died for our sins and rose from the dead, conquering death. It's through believing in Christ that we are forgiven and receive eternal life, and it's through the power of the Holy Spirit that we can put away sin and become more like Christ. Not only that, we can have assurance of our salvation" (Raynor 2011, 135). This is the good news of Jesus Christ.

What place does the good news of Jesus Christ have in our youth ministries? What about yours?

Raynor, Shane. "Internet Ministry: Delivering the Message in Cyberspace" in Generation Rising: A Future with Hope for the United Methodist Church, ed. Andrew Thompson, 132-142. Nashvilee: Abingdon,2011.

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The Point of It?

2011-07-08T09:34:00.000-05:00

As I read Kevin M. Watson's chapter entitled, "Small Groups: Bearing One Another's Burdens" the word "purpose" kept coming to my mind. Watson is writing about the relevance for today of early Methodism's system of class meetings. He points to these meetings' emphasis on discipleship and transformation and their role in growth in the life of faith, noting the shift from class meetings to Sunday School where the emphasis is more on information giving. He makes other notable points. They raise the question of why we do what we do and what we are looking for during and at the end of the process. What's the point of it all?

This is an important question for us to revisit at this point in youTheology as we begin another year. Why are we doing what we are doing and what are we looking for? As we begin the 2011-2012 year, it's time for us to refocus and hold our mission before us and before the new crop of youTheologians, mentors, and leaders. How will we, together, develop faithful leaders for a diverse church and world? That's our mission. How will our small groups, presentations, discussion and other times move toward this end? How will faith be deepened and lives transformed through worshiping and serving together, learning about the Methodist tradition, participating together in spiritual disciplines, and seeking to hear God's call? How are the church and the world being transformed through what we do? How will God be glorified? There is a point to it all.

Summer is not yet over, and so this is a good time for those of us who work with youth to revisit our purpose before we go into the new school year of activities? What has God called us to do so that lives are transformed to God's glory? What is the point of it all?

www.youtheology.com
Loving God, Loving Neighbor

When Will We Get It?

2011-06-29T11:46:00.000-05:00

This morning I picked up a book to read entitled, Generation Rising: A Future With Hope for the United Methodist Church, edited by Andrew C. Thompson. It promises much and I am sure I will not be disappointed. In skimming through, I went to the chapter, "Youth Ministry: Reclaiming the Art of Confirmation." What struck me as I looked at the early part of the chapter was the discussion on the downside of treating youth ministry as if it were peripheral to the congregation, assuming that youth neither need nor want depth, resulting in a superficial approach to youth ministry that is disconnected from the main life of the church.

Some of us have probably encountered this concern before. As I read this section, I reflected that this is an old conversation and yet many have continued uncritically down this road of separateness. Even when faced with statistics and convincing arguments in favor of a deeper, more engaged youth ministry that is rooted in and connected with the congregation it seems that many adults working with youth find it easier to skim the surface and engage almost exclusively in the lighthearted moments. Whether this is about the adult or youth belongs to a different conversation. Nevertheless, my big question is, when will we get it? When will we allow ourselves and our youth to grow up into Christ who is the head of all things?

www.youtheology.com
Loving God, Loving Neighbor

Ministry "With" Young People

2011-06-22T15:44:00.000-05:00

What's the difference? You may ask. Ministry "to. Ministry "for". Or ministry "with" young people? It doesn't matter much which way you say it, right?

I would argue which word you use when you describe your work, love and life with young people as you seek God matters.

To young people it matters a great deal. For they are intregal partners on the journey. They give way to who you are becoming just as powerfully as you give way to who they are becoming. You both need each other.

Recently Mary Nelson wrote a book called, "Empowerment Book". This read addresses how to work with and among communites which do not have all of the resources they need to rightly bring about justice. Some of you connected to youTheology are serving in these sorts of communities and congregations. This book is for you.

Some of the amazing youTheologians who just returned from their trip feel called to serve with folks in under-resourced communities. You are filled with God's heart for justice and the city. This book is for you.

Check it out: http://www.ccda.org/empowerment-book

While you're at this site, take a moment to read about Christian Community Development Association and all the good work they do.

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Loving God, Loving Neighbor

Perspectives From the Field: Best Program

2011-06-17T18:18:00.000-05:00

During my 10 years as a Youth Director, the most fun & powerful moments I’ve ever had took place during the unplanned moments when we’ve taken youth trips and events.

These are most likely to take place on youth trips when there is a significant time to connect and make those lifelong memories you talk about in the decades to come.

Now, go have Fun in the Son!

by Mark Whitaker
~~Youth & Young Adult Director, Communications Coordinator, & Scouting Rep
Avondale United Methodist Church in Kansas City MO (North of the River)
~~Marketing Coordinator - youTheology Advisory Board

www.youtheology.com
Loving God, Loving Neighbor

Image of God

2011-06-10T17:08:00.000-05:00

It was a Saturday morning and we were out for breakfast at a local greasy spoon. She and I had known each other for four going on five years. Over the course of living life with this amazing young woman, I had always sensed a desire to know and seek God but something seemed to be getting in the way.

So I asked, "What sort of person do you think of when you think of God?"

"An old white man with a long white beard".

"Really?" I replied. In some ways I was not surprised that the "white Jesus image" was imprinted on her mind since we often give our responsibility to teach our young people about their faith away, quite unintentionally at times.

She confirmed and went into great detail about what this sort of God would look like. Mostly, she painted a picture of Jolly Old Saint Nick.

"If you think of someone who really loves you and really knows you what sort of person do you think of?" I inquired.

"An older wise black auntie," she smiled.

And I grinned back at her. This was more the idea I was hoping for. Her eyes lit up at this idea and she began to explain how she felt more comfortable talking and praying to a God who just might look more like her.

Spending time listening to our diverse groups of young people and helping them to re-imagine their image of God is quite a task. This task is essential to our journey's with young people because they hold within them the key which will unlock their ability to truly and authentically connect with the God of Love. Sometimes it's our job to help them find the key.

Sometimes they help us find ours.

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Loving God, Loving Neighbor

Presence-Centered Youth Ministry

2011-06-08T15:33:00.000-05:00

There was a lady named Lorna Holly who lived across the street from where my parents owned a cabin on church campgrounds. I had known her since I was a young girl and always felt loved by her. Later in life, I learned she had been a Nazarene pastor from the age of 19 until she could no longer preach and teach. She was now in her late nineties and lived in her little home across the street.

I decided late one summer night to stop in. I’d like to say my visit was the gift of the Spirit and I think if she was still alive she would agree.

Gently I knocked on the door, “Mrs. Holly?,” I inquired softly.

“Oh hello, dear,” she said. “Please come in”.

Her house smelled musty like older folks homes do. I’m not sure if they lose their sense of smell with age or if their very homes antique with them into a glorious distinctive aroma. Anyways, she engulfed me in her embrace. Seems like God is always putting skin on and walking around among us in ways we can feel, touch, sense and smell.

We talked about many things and she listened. What a gift! A saint, full of wisdom, experience and knowledge who was not eager to impart such knowledge but who humbly listened. In her listening she named one of ways God shaped and formed me to be faithful. She said, “Diane, you must preach and preach holiness!”

I submit 90-year old Lorna Holly was and is one of the best youth pastors who ever lived. Why? Because she extended to me an invitation into her home where she had been seeking God's presence.

After 8+ years of working with young people in some form of youth ministry or another, I firmly believe this is the most important thing we do as youth pastors. We create spaces for young people to encounter God and we welcome them into the places where the saints have encountered God in the past.

Mike King seems to agree as he writes about this in his book "Presence-Centered Youth Ministry". Don't take my word for his incredible insight in his book; check out this review by a fellow youth work supporter.

You can find Mike's book and other resources he would recommend at a page from his blog linked to Amazon. Click here to access.

With hope for God to infuse our work with young people,
Diane

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Perspectives from Advisory Board: Thank You to the Woman behind the Curtain!

2011-06-03T00:31:00.000-05:00

This is not my normal blog. Normally, I share a perspective from the field but today I’m sharing a perspective from the Advisory Board.

For the last couple years, I have had the privilege of serving on the Advisory Board for youTheology at Saint Paul School of Theology and this program has many elements from the year-long program and the Pan-Methodist Pilgrimage to Youth Workers Gathering in the Spring to the new One-Day event that we introduced last fall.

None of these would be possible without the hard work of the people behind the scenes. And I’d like to say a special thank you to Kathy Williams who has been in charge of Planning & Logistics but is leaving us to become a Pastor in Topeka. Our loss is their gain and God has great plans for her in the future.

I was fortunate enough to get the opportunity to publicly thank Kathy in front of the current class of youTheology on the eve of their Pilgrimage and I’m looking forward to reading about their journeys at www.youtheology.com/panmethodistpilgrimage2011 over the next week.

by Mark Whitaker
~~Youth & Young Adult Director, Communications Coordinator, & Scouting Rep
Avondale United Methodist Church in Kansas City MO (North of the River)
~~Marketing Coordinator - youTheology Advisory Board

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